Monday, November 02, 2009

Very short update

It's been almost a month since I last blogged. I've tried to write blog posts a few different times, but things are complicated. I start writing, and then I have to explain things, and in no time at all I have six pages, and I'm still not done, and it all seems wayyy too detailed and personal to post online. So, instead I'll be very brief:

J broke up with me earlier this month. I wanted to fix things and felt like a lot of our problems were really just stress from non-relationship things. J was done. I was really sad about it. A lot happened. He started asking me on dates, but he was also dating other girls. More happened. The non-relationship things settled, and the relationship things were fixed. He began to wonder whether he had made a mistake in breaking up with me. (He had.) This past Friday he canceled his date with another girl, and brought me roses and a card, and he apologized and asked me to be his girlfriend again.

So things are back to normal, except that our time apart actually strengthened our relationship.

4 comments:

Heather said...

AAAUUUGGGHH!!! Ok, I am immature, but seriously this makes me sooo happy! I am so glad things worked out and are better than they were before. YAAAY!!

(I am ridiculously happy about this.)

erin said...

I am glad. I am sorry that I have been so busy that we haven't been able to hang out. And it's my turn not to write back to you. I am out of town in CA again this weekend. But hey, the weather is nice, so maybe the weekend after we can play. It's too bad that it gets darker now so we can't go during the day. But hey, we could always go in the dark! :)

Seriously, I am glad that things are better for you. Did you listen to the fireside last night? I cried through the entire thing. He talked a lot about relationships and life. Loved it.

MamaErin said...

SO HAPPY!!! I really really (REALLY) liked him when you guys came over. This just made my day =)

Shannon Mollie said...

Emily, I am glad things are working out, but I am also VERY glad that you have started posting again! Don't think I didn't notice that you hadn't posted in awhile! Glad you're back.